Sunday, April 12, 2015

Little joys and unexpected opportunities

Well, it's a cold, rainy Sunday morning. I was rather surprised (and now am mostly annoyed) at how not hot Jordan has been since I arrived. I brought a light jacket, and that was it by way of warm clothing.  Other than a couple of days of sun and 80 degree weather, it has been rather wet and cold - and I have developed a love-hate relationship with my one jacket (which jacket I have had for more than 10 years now, so I'm certain it is at the height of unfashion). I have been told that Jordan is the second-driest country in the world (I don't know which is the first). But I have to say, I am rather certain that this year Utah would certainly take some of this weather that is considered so terribly dry! Well, hopefully it's a great blessing to the country. The grasses and wildflowers are quite lovely, so I'll enjoy it while I can. (The thunder that just cracked outside must be sign from the heavens that I have no choice but to take it and like it!)

Normally I would be in class right now. But this weekend is Orthodox Easter, so we got this Sunday off. I find it rather humorous. First off, Qasid is rather conservatively Muslim (not extremist, mind you: simply most of the teachers are quite religious, and the female teachers are required (I think) to wear hijab; we as female students to wear clothing that reaches our neck, elbows, and ankles), but they take this Christian holiday off - presumably for the large number of western students that attend classes here. But the reason this is odd is that, those western students who are Christian (like myself) are almost exclusively of the western bent, meaning, we celebrated Easter last weekend. Ah well. I'll take the day off and love it!

All week I had been planning to go with a few friends out to a nature reserve to see some of the natural beauty Jordan has to offer. But the day before I found out they changed their minds and decided to go to Petra. I wasn't super excited about this - I've been to Petra, and I was really excited to hike and see things I hadn't seen. Anyway, to make a long story short, after I decided not to go (it was going to cost $100 round trip, to boot!) the rest of the group ended up not going either, so I went with one of them to downtown Amman. It has lots of fun things to see. See pics below.

Other than that, I really have very little of interest to report. I was blessed to listen to a few of the sessions of General Conference a week ago. What a joy to share in the community of the Church, even from the other side of the world! Likewise, I am enjoying my little LDS branch here, and I have already been extended a calling: Young Women's Camp Director. That was unexpected! Camp will be next month, so I will be spending some time figuring out how things work here in Jordan, how best to incorporate the Young Women from other branches, who speak only Arabic, and how to accomplish a meaningful camp in the 2.5 days allotted. It should be a rousing adventure!

Below are a few photos of fun moments.

This is a video capturing the gas truck with its haunting tune. It really has come to frame my life like an eerie horror movie soundtrack. It's everywhere, every half hour or so!


And this one is a tidbit of my daily walk to school.


More of the walk to school.



Niki Bradford has invited me to her house each Friday (after church) for dinner. Her kids are adorable, and I always have a great time - lots of playing, great talking, and warm hugs. This is her youngest son, Hyrum, showing me his pirate peg leg.


I found a Betty Crocker brownie mix. You better believe I made them! Had to use olive oil, and guestimate on the measuring of ingredients (we don't have any cup/spoon measures here), but they turned out quite delicious!


Yesterday's trip to downtown began with a visit to the national Mosque. These are all taken from the women's section, upstairs. 



Notice the way that the carpet (very nice and soft on bare feet - you must remove your shoes before entering) is divided into little prayer squares. They are very close together, with the intent that, as people line up and pray together, they will be shoulder-to-shoulder, thus allowing no room for the devil to enter. It is custom to walk along the edges, not just any old place, of these little prayer squares, and along the larger division lines between each row. This is out of respect and reverence for these prayer mats.


My friend Hope who went with me.




This is the ancient Roman amphitheater. It was built in the second century, into the natural hillside. It could seat 6,000, and had a great view and acoustics from anywhere. It's quite steep, and high, but we climbed to the tip top. Got my legs burning and my lungs pumping!



A smaller theater to the side of the larger one.








In a small, rather ramshackle museum off to the side, one can see various examples of local tribal clothing, jewelry and other items through the centuries since the Roman period. I find out how to say my name in Arabic!


Looking down from the top of the amphitheater.


Across the street, we replaced the calories we burned with some delicious kanafa!



Atop the opposite hill from the amphitheater stand ruins from the Roman citadel from the same period. Looking to the east, one can see an enormous Jordanian flag billowing. 





Unlike various ancient sites I've visited, apparently no one has a problem with everyone climbing all over the antiquities. And everyone does!









Although the Roman ruins dominate the view, this is one of the oldest inhabited places in the world, and artifacts have been discovered from as far back as 2,000 years BC. Many of those can also be viewed at a small museum off to the side.








Right next to the citadel, a group of kids were playing soccer. I couldn't pass up a chance...





They also let my fly their kite for a few minutes.


But of course, after all the fun, they ran back up to us, asking for some money for their services. So, I gave them a dinar - about $1.50. That should have been enough to go buy some candy. 

A fun day.


Wednesday, April 1, 2015

Adventures of the pharmaceutical, culinary and transit kind

I must say, it's really rather ridiculous how much time I spent wasted trying to capture an adequate image of the rash on my face. Truly, what have I become?

Yes, I'll post the most successful attempt so you can see. The thing is, it's not that bad of a rash! But it was rather itchy, and I've been quite impatient with my week and a half of being sick here - so it seemed a major aspect of my trip to cover with a good photo! And probably no one really cares much. Because a visit to the pharmacist, resulting in a little box of anti-histamine pills and a cortisone cream has had a very positive effect. Not a big deal at all. And it cost me a fraction of the price it would have cost in the States!


Well, doesn't capture the rash so much as the view up my nose! Ah well.


I did discover, however, that Halls cough drops in Jordan are better than in the States. At least, I think so. The little package was mint flavored, so it's like sucking on an after-dinner mint! Who wouldn't love that? I can't comment on its effectiveness - I still have a bit of a cough. But I sure pop those drops like candy! And all around me enjoy my minty fresh breath!

I have a few photos to embellish my description of local "sights and sounds." And I must confess that my assessment of the trash situation was a bit narrow-sighted. As I have walked around and paid a bit more attention, I notice that, although there is certainly a great deal more trash than is usual in most places in the US and Europe that I have visited, it seems to be concentrated in certain areas, such as empty lots and fields. I walk through one such empty lot on my way to school each day, so it seems quite frequent - but the streets themselves are actually mostly trash-free. Some neighborhoods, like one I walked through a couple of days ago, actually seemed like Beverly Hills transplanted to Amman! Lots of Palm trees, big, beautiful houses, fenced and gated with expensive cars in the driveway - and no trash whatsoever.

I have ventured out a little more the last few days. I walked for probably a mile and a half (and another mile and a half back) with a friend the other night to find a little place he had heard about that served Koshari - an Egyptian street dish. It was amazing! And very filling! I got through just over half of my bowl, and Kyle (my friend) eagerly shoveled down (and that is not an exaggeration of his eating habits) the rest. He regretted it during the walk home.


The other grand adventure was to a place the likes of which I rather avoid in the US: a mall. I left my running shoes in Virginia (does that sound like the title of a song to anyone else?), and the other shoes I had intended to bring got packed up in the legendary 3-hour move that my dear (and incredibly efficient!) friends performed for me the last day of February. So, I have been wearing the same pair of sandals here in Jordan - and I'm none too sure that women wearing sandals is socially acceptable. If not, oh well! So, I needed some shoes, and particularly some exercise shoes. I did check out the "mall" near to me here, and I just couldn't bring myself to pay good money for shoes I quite disliked. So, I pointedly sought out a place that would have "western" options. I am proud to report that I successfully told the taxi driver that I wanted to go to the "Taj Mall" (that has to be a play on words!), purchased three pairs of excellent shoes (they had a Payless!), a belt (American Eagle) and a shirt (H&M), and told the next taxi driver how to arrive at my house. I have mastered, "Right here, left here, straight," etc. Quite an accomplishment.

Speaking of taxis and adventures, my first adventure in a taxi was to attend church last Friday. Yes, church is held Friday, in keeping with the local weekly holy day. Armed with a somewhat vague map, some key phrases, and all the guts I could muster, I hailed a taxi last Friday morning, praying the Lord would provide a kind, honest and patient driver. He did. But it still didn't go completely smoothly. I was able to tell him the general vicinity, and he arrived to the "Fifth Circle, near Sheraton Hotel" with no problem. It was at this point that I froze. I knew I needed to go left, but also something else - what was it!? In the panic of the moment, I just told him to turn left, fumbling terribly with the awkward words, and realized we were on a road I recognized from the map, near the road I needed, but not the correct one. I asked the driver if he knew of Princess Basma Road, but he didn't (apparently they never know street names, but landmarks - it's a cultural thing). He drove a couple of more blocks before I finally just told him to let me out there - I didn't think, for some reason, to look at the map on my phone and try to direct him to the correct street/building. I could use a little walk anyway.

Well, 45 minutes later, I entered what appeared to be a completely empty, unfinished office building. I had found the road (sigh of relief!), although I never did see a street sign (most roads do, thank goodness, have street signs), and had walked and walked (like the Pioneer Children) down it, looking for number 194. Most of the buildings, which were few and far between on this particular street, didn't have numbers. When I arrived at a certain stop light, I realized I had gone too far - but how had I missed it? So, I backtracked, found the strange, empty office building (but then I did notice it had about 5 cars in front), and studied it for a few moments before I realized it did, in fact, have a 194 posted on the side. Phew! They could have made that more prominent!

But things didn't get much easier once I went inside. It was, as I had feared, entirely empty, and I could discern no singing, talking - nothing. Silence. I opened one door - and it felt like some eerie James Bond movie - just unfinished office rooms, power lines dangling, etc. I checked out the stairs, which were dark and silent - I wasn't going to venture there! I got on the elevator and went up a few floors - each as dark and uninviting as the last. So, I went back down to the ground floor. Of course, I had again overlooked a key element: a sign that had the names of about 5 or 6 different organizations that apparently used this building. LDS Charities was on floor 1.

I got back in the elevator (no stairs in that frightening place, thank you!), up a floor, and found myself stepping into a classic, LDS church setting, complete with beige, nondescript walls, the usual paintings, floral patterned couches - the works. I could hear someone speaking (they had just finished the Sacrament, so perhaps I would have heard something downstairs if it hadn't been for that), and wandered until I found the chapel.

The meeting was lovely - really very much some words I needed to hear. In Relief Society, a woman came to introduce herself and sit by me, and then she invited me to her home afterward. What a blessing! She and her beautiful family and additional adopted daughter (a young single woman living with them while she works as a social worker with refugee children from Iraq and Syria) welcomed me with nothing less than open arms - literally! I got so many hugs, played Uno and other games, was even fought over! Not to mention a delightful lunch.

Niki's husband, Tobias, works for the US State Department in Cultural Affairs. While I joined the family for a walk, I quizzed him on various aspects of Jordan - he was a wealth of knowledge! I learned so much about the inner workings of Jordanian government and international relations, Jordan's economy and tribal elements, the huge (some estimate over 50% now) Palestinian population and how that affects political decisions, and the ever-looming Israel question. He complained of the way that Israel dominates politics in Jordan - and not just because of its military and economic dominance in the region (although this is, of course, a huge factor). Jordan's Palestinian (immigrant) population makes Israel a constant (and rather explosive) issue. He also noted that, although Israel must always be the punching bag, and serves as a reliable source of political unity, it really plays a very small role in people's actual daily lives - even those drawn to extreme political measures.

A final interesting point he mentioned was the way that ISIS (Da'ash) is perceived in Jordanian society. We all know about the Jordanian fighter pilot who was burned to death by this radical group - apparently in an attempt to rally marginalized Jordanians to their cause by attacking Jordan's military, thus proving their might and courage. The attempt, according to everything Tobias can see, has backfired. Public opinion polls indicated before this event, 65% of Jordanian society disagreed with ISIS - a pretty definitive number, but not overwhelming. Now, although data is still coming in, as much as 95% of society oppose it. Those who might be likely to join the group have mostly gone underground. Apparently US intelligence works closely with that of Jordan, even more so than with Israel, and various dangers do still exist, but Jordan's resistance to terrorism is strong.

So, quite an interesting day. I wish I had time to write about it all for you. But I must get busy on homework. I moved up a level in Arabic - which is good for me, but means a LOT of homework and catching up. Love to you all!

Below are a few photos to capture some of my experience.


My walk to school each day (although I still haven't taken a picture of the super steep hill that I walk up to get to this point)


Note the abandoned car (they're rather frequent) and the school bus/van.

On the right are some shops, the left some apartments. In the distance, you can just make out "Al-Mukhtar Mall," which has various shops and even a French-owned grocery store.

This house is under construction. I am fascinated by the way the roof has apparently been hammered off, and replaced with what looks like a quite haphazard cement base for the second floor. This picture doesn't capture it, but I am shy about pulling out my camera/phone too much. I do try to be somewhat inconspicuous.

On my way home that day, some sheep visited my hilly shortcut.



My dinner tonight: Lentils. I know, it looks like something that someone either puked or pooped. But it was delicious! On the left is the culprit responsible for the strange color: a purple carrot. All the regular, orange carrots were in huge bundles that I can't possibly eat before they would go bad, so I bought these beauties. Makes for a strange lentil stew, but tasted great!




This is my selection of spices. Can you tell what they are? Me either! No label. So, I smell each one, and if it smells right, I dump some in. So far, it has gone alright. (They're in a drawer of the kitchen, from some past student with culinary tendencies.)